As a professional escort, you've most likely gone on dozens of dates with a diverse range of men and seen a wide range of actions and attitudes. But how many of those dates would you grade as a 10 out of ten in terms of quality?
However, the reality remains that most men, and women, if we are truly honest, tend to engage in a variety of off-putting behaviors when on a date, so what can we do to combat this? The good news is that we can either address the issues that we're most frequently confronted with by clearly stating all of the do's and don'ts on our escort profile/website, or we can learn how to respond to all of this criticism in a positive manner because as we all know, honey outperforms vinegar when it comes to catching flies.
Listed below are a few of the most common dating habits that men engage in when spending time with an escort, along with the positive criticism that we recommend you use to confront them!
1. He is always late for appointments.
Negative criticism: "You have a terrible track record of being on time." This annoys me and causes me to miss my whole day as well as all of my other appointments." In this situation, it is beneficial and effective to shift the emphasis away from him and onto you. In this case, rather than emphasizing what he is doing incorrectly, remind him what you can achieve better with his presence if he arrives on time. This way, he won't feel like you're assaulting him, and he could even get a feeling of what he's losing out on as a result of his tardiness.
The following is an example of constructive criticism: "If we had more time together, I would love to do all of the things that you like." Unfortunately, I work on a very strict schedule, and if you come late, all I can do is keep to the original timetable, with no option to extend the time set out for you."
Don't be passive-aggressive, don't attack him, and don't behave like an enraged girlfriend in front of him or around him. He has it at home, and he doesn't need it from you at this time. Yes, your time is valuable, and his being late might result in you having to allow yourself less time between dates or possibly having to postpone all of your meetings; but, you must maintain a professional and elegant demeanor throughout the situation.
2. He seems to be dissatisfied.
Escorts organize photo sessions to have high-quality content for their websites and online profiles, and a photoshoot necessitates a certain cosmetics look as well as a specific style of high-end clothing. Alternatively, they use filters to conceal specific skin flaws.
Most males, on the other hand, seem to be unable to distinguish between a lady in her everyday life and the same woman dressed up for a photograph. And it is at this time that the disappointment manifests itself.

Whether he imagined her to be skinnier, curvier, with fuller curves, blonder, sexier, or he just does not feel the chemistry, that is perfectly OK. However, it does not give him the right to be upset about it, create a fuss, or be disrespectful about it, which is completely unacceptable. However, the majority of guys behave in this manner, therefore here is a method to provide him with constructive feedback.
Criticism that is negative: "If you don't like what you see, you are free to go; but, please do not simply stand here behaving like a complete and utter jerk." Positive criticism: "I have a feeling that this date is not going the way you expected it to and that maybe I am not fitting your mental picture of me, but what I recommend is that you remain open-minded and allow things to flow, and I am certain that you will be pleasantly pleased.
3. He's either texting or making phone calls.
The most effective technique to get your date to behave in the manner you want is to set a good example for him or her. Instead of chastising him for spending too much time on the internet, you could approach the issue as something that you are prepared to do and encourage him to participate with you. This will prevent him from becoming defensive and leaving you with a negative review.
4. He has an issue with his hygiene.
If your date has a hygiene issue and he arrives at your home after a long day at work, after a bike ride across town, or after drinks with his friends, you have every right to be disgusted; however, you must remain extremely polite to receive a positive review and a client who will book you again.
So you can't just come out and say, "for the love of God, please take a shower before dating me," because that would be rude. Instead, you might be more subtly assertive and begin with praise before advancing to the suggestion stage.
You may even claim that you have a tight policy on cleanliness that permits you to provide your dates with all of the services listed on the service list if the subtle recommendations don't work. If the cleanliness component is not adhered to, you have the option of canceling the appointment and rescheduling it at another time. It's critical to keep things simple, to smile, and to speak in a warm, pleasant tone of voice so that he doesn't get upset and criticize you online.
These are just a few examples of the situations that an escort encounters daily, and the outrage is completely justified. However, remember that you can always turn negative criticism into positive feedback, which will result in better reviews of your services and clients who return for additional dates.
Always make recommendations, set a good example, give a compliment for every critique, avoid accusing him directly, express things from your point of view, and be clear without wasting time or words.